Booking & Verification

When contacting, introduce yourself respectfully. Include your full name, age, occupation, and the date and time you wish to book. Please specify the type of session you are looking for, as well as the length of time you’d like to spend together. I am selective about my clients, so a polite, clear, and respectful introduction is essential.

Note: I do not accept calls, and I only respond to those who provide a verifiable email or phone number. I value your time, and I ask that you respect mine by following this simple process.

Understand:

I believe that mutual respect and clear communication are the foundation of any connection. Before reaching out, please take a moment to read through the following information to ensure we’re aligned. I’m selective in who I see, and I trust you will understand the importance of respecting both my boundaries and my booking process.

Who I See vs Who I Wont

I’m here to create meaningful, respectful, and authentic connections. I embrace individuals of all races, genders, sexualities, and experiences — as long as you approach our connection with respect, kindness, and understanding of my boundaries. I am open to meeting those who value mutual respect and clear communication.

Please note, I will decline anyone who is rude, disrespectful, or unwilling to honor the professional boundaries I’ve set. I seek clients who are equally committed to cultivating a positive, respectful, and enjoyable experience for both of us.

Screening

To screen, you must provide photo of ID, AND a selfie with your ID. Everything aside from name, DOB, and photo can be scribbled out.

This is the only verification method I’m currently accepting. Please do not send me your Linkedin or other profiles as it’s unnecessary. Social media, video, PD, and P411 do absolutely nothing to ensure my safety.

Real world information is mandatory, I promise discretion is of utmost importance to me. Your ID is simply for my safety, and is disposed of after the fact. Screening is only required for first time visit.

Screening is a matter of life or death for providers, which is why it is more important than your apprehension.

My job is inherently dangerous, and I hope you can understand! If not, you are not the type of man I am interested in seeing.

Deposits

All clients are required to send deposit prior to our engagement. This will not be waived and I do not make exceptions. No deposit = no meet.

Deposits of at least 20% of appointment rate are required for each appointment. I prefer Cash App ($tessvalxo) or Bitcoin, but can provide Apple Pay or PayPal info if necessary. I cannot accept Venmo or Zelle. I accept deposits up to 50%. Please bring the rest of your donation in cash. If I am unable to make our scheduled appointment and you do not wish to reschedule, you will be promptly refunded. Refunds are given based on my need to cancel only. If your actions force to me to terminate an upcoming appointment, (disrespectful behavior, crossing very clear boundaries, any other harmful actions) you will not be refunded.

Misconduct

If you are to attempt to do anything disrespectful, unsafe, or without my consent, you will have to leave immediately and without refund. My safety must be my top priority.

Please read etiquette section below prior to contacting to book.

Etiquette

➺ I choose my clients carefully. I’m highly selective about the connections I cultivate, and I decline appointments more often than I accept them. I’m here for meaningful connections, not anyone who wants to book.

➺ Reach out with respect and kindness. I’ve made the booking process as easy and clear as possible — please refer to my contact page, booking polices above, and investment information before you get in touch. This ensures we’re on the same page, and I’ll be able to respond more effectively to your inquiry.

➺ Understanding my services: Please be aware that I only provide massage services right now, I do not provide full service. Massages are one sided services.

➺ Please be aware of what is included in the session you book. I offer FBSM and Nuru Inspired Massage, and also a Gentle Domination experience. Massage services can be either standard or deluxe, the former being your typical ending and the latter being beyond hands. ✨ Domination sessions can be with or without a massage included.

➺ Appointments are required — I believe in maintaining a healthy balance between my work and personal life, so please be sure to schedule in advance. I’m very selective about who I work with, and I appreciate your understanding of this.

➺ Respect my boundaries. If something isn’t explicitly mentioned as being part of the experience, please ask first before acting. Consent and communication are key in everything we do, and I will always appreciate your respect in honoring those boundaries.

➺ Please be on time. If you are running late, let me know as soon as possible. If you need to cancel, please inform me as early as possible.

➺ Donation Courtesy: Please bring the remainder of your donation in cash, and leave it on the table or hand it to me in plain view at the beginning of our time together. More than 50% of my rate can not be accepted virtually.

➺ Personal hygiene is a must. There are no exceptions. You must shower in the bathroom provided prior to your massage.

➺ Photography or filming is strictly prohibited during our time together. You do not have my consent under any circumstances.

➺ Respect for my Recovery: I am 8 years clean from substances. Please do not bring up or mention "party favors" during our time. I have no judgment about your lifestyle, but I do not tolerate that in my space.

➺ Reviews: I do not accept or engage with reviews or testimonials without my prior knowledge and consent. I do not align with review culture, as it fosters a system I do not support. If you leave a review of any kind, we are not a match, and I will not see you again.

➺ Discretion goes both ways. I promise discretion and respect for your privacy, and I ask that you provide the same in return. This is a confidential space for both of us.

➺ Testimonials: If you would like to leave a testimonial on my website, please reach out to me directly. I appreciate authentic, consensual feedback and am open to receiving it on my terms.